3 Things I Wish I Knew

Learning the hard way has always kinda been my thing. I have a kid who takes the same approach to life, and it is soo incredibly frustrating to witness. Looking back, there are several things I really wish I knew going into my first pregnancy, birth, and postpartum. I really tried to inform myself as much as possible, and honestly I maybe read too much–partly reflected in the B I got in one of my grad school classes the semester I found out I was pregnant–though all the vomiting & napping surely didn’t help that either. Some of these hindsight observations might surprise you!

Approach Matters

I wish I knew the difference between the obstetric & midwifery approaches to prenatal care. While my friends were getting 5-10 minutes with their OBs, I was getting 30 minute talks with my midwife about all of my worries so that they had a whole picture of my life and not just some measurements and numbers in a chart. My friends who had family practice doctors for their care had much more similar experiences to mine with the midwives too, and for low-risk pregnancies some family practice doctors are amazing. Finding a provider that you’re comfortable with and who you don’t dread seeing is probably the most important part though, regardless of what model of care they practice.

Expectations?

I wish I knew that giving birth inside a hospital could be an amazing experience. I read and heard ALL the horror stories about getting run over by the system. I walked into my birth fully armed with all the information and ready for a fight to get the birth I wanted. I ended up having the most supportive team around me including my amazing nurse, my midwife, my doula, and even the supervising OB who stopped by for my whole pushing stage and whose words frankly got me through to the end. I will fully own my privilege and say that being a middle class presenting, white, fairly attractive & fit person (at the time anyway)–all of those things signaled different things to the people in the room on how to treat me. But I didn’t expect everyone to be so kind and supportive of my plan to give birth without medication or intervention in a hospital whose reputation is a “baby factory” known for high intervention rates in the area. The support afterwards with lactation was also so great. I wish more people would talk about their GREAT experiences too.

Right Way?

I wish I knew that there was no one right way to do all of this. My first time around, I was searching for what the RIGHT way to do things was. The lesson I continually come back to with parenting and birth and all of it, is that there is no one right way. I would have spent so much more time thinking about what was right for me and my family and my baby and the situation we were in at the time regarding finances, location, information, ability, capacity, etc. I stressed myself out to the point of exhaustion trying to find the “right” way, when I truly wish I had spent more time focusing inward and figuring out where & who to ask the questions when they came up later.

When you look back on your pregnancy, birth, & postpartum, what did you learn through hindsight? Are there things that you would do differently? If this is your first time, I urge you to take the 20 years perspective and think about how important some things that you might be fighting for right now, might actually be in the grand scheme of things too. As a doula, I can say that how you remember this will stay with you for the rest of your life. Your experience matters, so find what is important to you and surround yourself with people who share your values and approach to things. What would you add?

If you are wondering where to get started in your journey through pregnancy, birth, and postpartum, we have a resource just for you! Grab our free EBook written to help take the worry out of the beginning. Ready to talk about adding a doula to your team? Book a FREE 30 minute call to talk about who on our team might be the right fit for you. We also offer a FREE Biweekly newsletter with ideas, news, & resources open to anyone. We truly do want our experience to help improve yours!

Welcome Doula Abigail Hand!

When most doulas join our team, they are just starting out on their journey, which is humbling to be trusted to help them get started. However, Abigail brings a very different set of seasoned hands and skills to the team, and I’m honestly honored that she is going to join our already awesome group of doulas. Not only has Abigail already attended more than 100 births as a doula, but she’s also done most of that outside of the United States! Abigail’s patience and fascination with all things birth was apparent from the first time we spoke, and her Christian faith is also an important part of her life. She’s impressively knowledgeable and compassionate, as well as a little goofy, so clearly she’s going to fit right in on our team.

In Her Own Words:

Abigail was born in Evansville. Grew up in Indiana then spent 8.5 years living in Australia and Asia working as a Birth Doula and trained Midwife. Mid 2022 Abigail moved back to Indiana and made her home in Evansville. Abigail enjoys teaching about pregnancy, birth, and caring for your newborn. She is always up for a laugh and regularly is attempting new nutritious recipes. Her passion for caring, supporting, and nurturing women has grown throughout the years as she has witnessed women from many cultural backgrounds lean on her for support and wisdom throughout their pregnancy and as they enter into motherhood.

Why did you want to become a birth doula?

When I saw the beauty, joy, and pain of a baby entering the world 14 year ago, I knew I wanted to support women through this vulnerable and transforming time in their lives.

What do you love about living in Evansville?

Honey + Moon Coffee Shop, Bike Riding Lanes, and the River.

Where can we find you on a regular Saturday?

Spending time outdoors with my Husband.

Abigail is available!!

If you are due September 2023 or later and giving birth within an hour drive of Evansville, IN, Abigail is available to be your birth doula! Abigail has extensive experience supporting both hospital and home birth clients. Working part-time as a midwifery assistant does take up some of Abigail’s time, but she’s really excited to jump into birth doula work in Evansville, Jasper, Vincennes, Washington, Henderson, Owensboro, & Madisonville too. If you see her around town, make sure you tell her welcome back to Evansville. We’re so lucky she’s here and excited to have her join Doula Group of Evansville too.

5 Things to Pack for Your Hospital Birth

Packing for the hospital when you are expecting a baby can feel a little daunting. Sure, you want to pack the essentials like an outfit for your baby to wear home and the car seat, what do you really need to pack for yourself? I’ve had some clients bring only their purse and others who look like they are moving abroad for year with giant suitcases full of stuff. Neither of those approaches are really my style, but there are a few essentials that you might not think about when it comes to packing your bags for your hospital birth. These are my top five:

Lip Balm

All that breathing in labor can make your lips dry. Kissing your baby’s head a million times can make your lips dry. All the talking you are going to be doing to all the people coming in and out of your room and on the phone telling everyone how amazing your baby is, that will make your lips dry too. Indoor air is dry, especially in a hospital. Trust me! Bring the lip balm.

Your Own Pillow & Blanket

While your first reaction to bringing your own pillow and blanket into a hospital might be ick, this one is essential. Pillows can sometimes be hard to find in a hospital, and their blankets are not exactly known for being fuzzy and soft. Bringing your own pillow and blanket also has the extra added bonus of helping your room feel more like your own, and smelling like home helps your body actually feel safer too. Thank you olfactory senses & pheromones! Comfort is important during your stay, and I promise that your washing machine has a disinfect cycle that you can use on the pillow and blanket when you get them back home.

Cheap Nightgown & Slippers

One of my doula secrets is that the cheap nightgowns that button or snap up in the front are seriously awesome for the hospital. Pants aren’t great because of needing to pull them down all the time for your nurse to check your bleeding, and if you have a surgical birth you will constantly worry about the waistband. Easy access to your chest is essential, so definitely something to look for when you are shopping for a nightgown. I also recommend not purchasing anything you actually really love, because you want to not feel bad for getting bodily fluids on it and maybe just throwing it away. Slippers are just nice for your feet to not have to touch the hospital floor. I don’t know about you, but I definitely feel like I have to relax when I’m wearing slippers too.

Snacks

Yes, the hospital will have food for you, but packing your own snacks can help bring you comfort too. Have a favorite road trip snack? Pack it! Have a snack you’ve been craving your whole pregnancy? Pack it! Planning an unmedicated birth and having a healthy pregnancy? Pack some snacks to eat & drink during labor too! Yes, seriously!

Nursing Bra & Pads

No matter how you are planning to feed your baby, you will want to bring a nursing bra and some pads. If you are planning to breastfeed, then having access to the breast is essential, and the nightgown is only part of the deal. The nursing bra is not entirely essential, but I personally always liked to have one for when I slept. I really like this one from Kindred Bravely, but there are tons of really great options. I also always appreciated having the absorbent pads to put in my bra, because when my milk came in it was full force. If you are planning to formula feed, a tight bra and some pads will help keep your milk at bay. You can also talk to the lactation consultants about other ways to dry up your milk with medications. (Yes, they do that too.) Having a bra on also helped me feel more comfortable with all the people who were constantly coming in and out to check on me in the hospital. That’s just a personal preference thing.

Figuring out what to pack for your hospital birth doesn’t have to be overwhelming. There are tons of packing lists that you can find online if you like a good list. These are the 5 essentials that not everyone thinks about bringing. The nice thing is that even if you forget something, either the hospital will have it for you, or you can send someone to the store to grab it. Heck, you could even have it delivered. Packing a little something nice for yourself, like delicious smelling shampoo for the best shower you’ve ever had in your life, the one after you give birth, is also a great idea. Pack the things you think you’ll need, and I promise, you’ll probably bring less with you the next time.

3 Ways Doulas Support Partners

Your doula will never know you as well as your partner. Some partners don’t want to hire a doula because they are concerned that we might replace them. That is frankly never the goal of our doulas, though there have been a few times when we’ve had to step in because a partner couldn’t be there for multiple reasons. The truth is that hiring a doula helps support partners too. I’ve supported clients whose partners were in the birth pool squeezing their hips and others whose partners had to hide their eyes during their entire labors because everything medical made them nauseous. I’ve caught dads who passed out at the sight of blood and helped others find better places to stand for camera angles. Here are the top 3 ways that doulas help partners.

Knowledge

Doulas help partners know what is going on in the birth room and during postpartum. We answer all kinds of questions like: is that normal? Is everything ok? What’s going on? Why are they suggesting that? Where should we go for help? Our doula knowledge helps not only reassure partners, but also help them ask good questions too. We suggest resources specifically for partners to learn if they’re interested. All Doula Group of Evansville packages come with access to Supporting Her (a $69 value) an online class specifically designed with partners in mind, because we know you want to know how to be the best support you can be too!

Practical Support

Partners need physical support too! I’ve seriously massaged more than one dad’s shoulders during the course of a long labor, and reminded more partners to pee than I can count. We help partners find pillows and towels in the hospital room, or make sure they know when a good time to sneak to the cafeteria to eat would be. We help you know where to press on their back when contractions come and remind you to hydrate too. Postpartum doulas will teach you the best swaddle and bring you a one-handed snack while you’re rocking in the chair with your newborn. Doulas are the extra set of hands that anticipate everyone’s needs!

Emotional Support

I’ve waited outside the doors to the operating room with anxious worried partners waiting to be called back. I’ve hugged a sobbing father whose baby was born sleeping, and handed more tissues to silently crying and ecstatic partners. I’ve reassured frustrated partners that yes, they can and should speak up when they’re not getting the answers or care they need. This holding space for partners is a dance that we know and prepare for as doulas. This is one of the reasons we want to meet with you and your partner before birth and postpartum; getting to know you and your wishes helps us help you better.

Doulas help partners participate and engage however they want and are able to. We never try to step on partner toes, literally or figuratively! We love all kinds of partners and know each family is unique. Having a doula on your team can help you have a better experience too. When you’re ready, we’re here to support your whole family from your wet pregnancy test all the way through the 4th trimester.

A little anecdote for you: pre-COVID, I taught a 3 hour class on natural coping techniques for labor and delivery. I had been talking to this awesome pregnant mom who really wanted to hire me as her birth doula but her husband didn’t want to spend the money, and they came to my class. After 3 hours, her husband was 100% convinced that they definitely needed to hire me as their doula. Unfortunately, I was already booked for their due date, but I know they had an awesome birth anyway. If you’re on the fence about hiring a doula, reach out to set up a FREE consult together. We’d love to chat!

Black Birth Matters

This Black History Month I want to celebrate the 3 amazing black doulas on our team who are making history every single day! Tamika, Jessica, & Norma are 3 of the kindest humans you will ever meet. All 3 are birth doulas who love serving all kinds of families, but definitely have a very special heart to be able to serve families from the Black Community especially. We know how important culturally congruent care can be to all families, but especially here in the US where maternal mortality is 3-4 times higher for black birthing families than everyone else, and where racism is a daily fact of life.

These 3 doulas are all so very different, but the one thing they have in common is a personal understanding of the black experience here in Evansville. Their experiences help shape the type of doulas they are with all of their clients of course. Their compassion for the struggle of navigating the healthcare system all while worrying that whoever is in charge of your care might be judging you based on your skin color is impeccable. We LOVE the questions that they ask and their approach to helping families, and I learn from every single conversation that I get the chance to have with each of them.

I celebrate these doulas because of their bravery and knowing that this work is about so much more than representation. The human connection is what doula work is all about, and these 3 get it on a cellular level. They are proud black doulas here serving our community and raising beautiful children in a sometimes very challenging place.

I asked one of them what was hard about living here, and her reply was, “I think its because the racism is hidden, so its harder to decide who is trustworthy.” That was a gut punch of a statement, but of course a sentiment shared by many families of color. These doulas get it, because they live it. The best part though, “that we have such a great group of doulas supporting each other who all get it.”

We see you Tamika, Jessica, & Norma out here being the change you want to see in the world. Thank you for trusting this group to be part of your doula community. We appreciate your perspective and work so very much, and are here to support you in every way we can.

Becoming a Doula

Way back in 2014, a mere month after walking the stage to receive my PhD in Medical Anthropology, I traveled to Louisville, KY to attend a birth doula training with the brilliant Robin Elise Weiss. Since then I’ve attended more than 200 doula client births and learned so much along the way. This is the story of how I became a doula.

When I got pregnant during graduate school (not something I recommend btw), I voraciously read everything I could about pregnancy, birth, and postpartum. I could not get enough, and I even had professors sending me articles about how babies learn language before they are born. Naturally I scheduled my German conversation course for the spring semester while I was pregnant. By the time I neared the end graduate school I’d had 2 children and wasn’t sure I wanted to be an academic. That was when the idea to become a doula really started to take hold.

I started in 2013 by networking with other doulas in Evansville, and oh my goodness they were all soo nice to me. They invited me to a “doula night” at one of their houses where they talked business, trainings, & all things doula. One of them even had a placenta in their freezer, and I knew these were my people. I was hooked. I went to the training in June 2014, and have been taking clients ever since then. None of those doulas I met that night are still taking clients, which speaks so much to how challenging this job can be, especially the unexpected bits of it.

The Unexpected Bits

I didn’t expect to need to run my own business. I know that sounds naïve, even to me now, but it is the truth. I wanted to help birthing families sure, but finding clients, building & maintaining a website, setting up the proper legal paperwork, social media, paying taxes, networking, and all that jazz were not part of the thought process of getting started. I may have had a PhD, but I had much to learn about business. I’m happy to say that I feel much more confident now, though the imposter syndrome does sneak in occasionally.

The challenge of life on call was not something I was wholly prepared for in the beginning. As a birth doula, I have to be ready to leave my life for a couple days with sometimes not much warning. I have to be willing to miss holidays and plays and family events to go be with my clients. When my kids were little, the biggest challenge was having childcare ready at any moment of the day for possibly an entire month of 24/7 on-call time. This is the part that I always talk to people thinking about becoming a doula about, because not everyone has the resources to be able to do that. The reality of how much energy being a doula takes also almost always has new doulas re-thinking how much they charge for their services, though that is a topic for another time.

The best unexpected bits have been the amazing connections that I’ve been able to make with clients and their families. I’m forever grateful to be a part of some of the most memorable moments of their lives. There are so many families that I’ve had the chance to meet and be part of that I would never have met otherwise. That is something so beautiful about this job and I’ll never take it for granted. Though it does sometimes make it challenging to walk through a crowd without someone yelling my name and getting random hugs. (BONUS!!)

Learning

I’ve continued learning from some of the best doulas around the world, and I’m going to keep learning probably forever, because that’s just my style. I’ve gotten amazing doula agency business advice from Jessica English. I took a brilliant postpartum doula training from Jen Chandlee. I continue to learn from Ann Grauer, who also trained the 2 other postpartum doulas on my team. I am learning about leadership in the doula world from Melissa Harley & Nikia Lawson all the time too. I’m sure this year will be a huge one of learning, as I step into the role of President at DONA International.

I’m asked all the time about how to become a doula. This is my story. I started with DONA International, and have worked hard to keep learning and growing as a doula. I have an abundance mindset, and I honestly feel like that has helped bridge so much learning and connection for me. It is also why I’m passionate that more people in Evansville should learn to be doulas too! I love talking to new doulas and am HAPPY when more doulas are trained here. I started Doula Group of Evansville so that more families could be supported by doulas and more doulas could feel supported by each other.

Ever thought of becoming a doula?

Becoming a doula has been one of the best decisions that I’ve ever made. It hasn’t been easy, but it has honestly been more rewarding that I ever could have imagined. If you’re thinking about becoming a doula, please feel free to reach out to talk to me. I will continue to pass on the kindness shown to me by the doulas here back in 2014 by always being willing to share my experience with others who might be interested in traveling this path too.

Welcome New Birth Doula Clara Strong!!!

We are soo very excited to welcome another passionate birth doula to our team: Clara Strong!! Clara comes very highly recommended from some really awesome people I know personally here in Evansville, and I’m not even sure she was looking to join the team already. Clara had been through her birth doula training when she set up a meeting with me to talk about the birth scene here locally. She has such a calming presence and laid back sense of humor, which honestly is one of my favorite combinations of personality traits when it comes to doulas. She’s had some great personal experience with birth here locally, and is excited to get started serving expecting families. She’s excited to join a team full of science-loving, anti-racist, LGBTQIA+ accomplices too, and that made my heart happy as a human too.

Clara Strong, birth doula

A Little About Clara:

Clara is a birth doula working toward full DONA certification. She has a bachelor’s degree in psychology and an MFA in creative writing. She is passionate about reproductive justice and is committed to empowering all kinds of families. She lives on the West side of Evansville with her husband, their two small children, the family dog, and a passel of chickens and geese.

(Side note: I may have shuddered when Clara told me about all the birds at her house and then promised to never come over.)

Don’t you just love that when I asked for pictures to share that Clara sent me one with a changing table & pack-n-play in the background?!?!

In Her Own Words

Why did you want to become a birth doula?

I have always been obsessed with all things birth– it was my favorite part of growing up on a farm!– but it wasn’t until after I learned how pervasive birth trauma is that I decided to become a birth doula.

What is your favorite thing about living in Evansville?

My favorite thing to do in Evansville is get tacos from La Campirana (seriously, they catered my wedding) and comb the racks of our local thrift stores for hidden treasure.

Where would we find you on a typical Saturday?

On a regular Saturday, I am probably fighting back weeds in my vegetable garden, or watching movies while snuggled up with my kids on the couch.

Want to talk to Clara??

Clara is available to start taking clients with due dates after 8/12/22! The first 3 clients will get a 50% discount on Clara’s birth doula fees as she tries to get going toward her certification. Contact us today if you’re interested in chatting with Clara to see if she’d be a good fit to have on your birth team.

Welcome Our Newest Doula: Andi Conkright!!

We love growing our team to be able to serve more clients & Andi is honestly just the perfect addition.

New doulas have the BEST energy about them. They are ready to take on the world and help their clients have the best birth possible. There’s nothing like the passion of a new doula either, and when I met Andi for the first time, it was so very clear that she is a great doula in the making! She has the easiest most gentle smile and navigated me peppering her with questions with grace and poise. Though she’s young, she’s prepared and so very thoughtful in her approach to clients already. I was really impressed by her, and I invited her to join the team on the spot!

In Her Words

“I am a trained birth doula currently working on full certification. I was born in Evansville and returned to be closer to family after spending a couple of years living on the coast in Florida. My pregnancy and the birth of my daughter in 2021 inspired my journey to becoming a doula and made me fall in love with the miracle of life. I am passionate about holistic health and look forward to integrating that into my practices as a doula when applicable. “

Why did you want to become a birth doula?

I became a doula because the birth of my child proved to be the most powerful and impactful experience in my life. There is so much to learn about pregnancy and birth, and so many options that birthing people don’t even realize they have. It is so important to me to support and inform every birthing person to help them have an empowered birth.

Andi Conkwright, Birth Doula

What do you love about living in Evansville?

What I like the most about Evansville is the growing diversity and individuality. Different communities are expanding and thriving. I feel as though we are all becoming more aware and accepting of one another.

Where can we find you on a regular Saturday?

If i’m lucky my partner and I will go out hunting for mushrooms in the morning- something we love to do together. I’ll then spend my day with my daughter, exploring and laughing and loving.

Andi is a new birth doula who is looking forward to serving clients starting NOW! If you are expecting in Evansville, Newburgh, Owensboro, Jasper, Vincennes, Washington, or Henderson, she’d LOVE to talk to you about birth doula services. Don’t let the newness dissuade you, Andi has a team of 9 other doulas behind her helping her navigate all the twists and turns that she’ll be helping her clients navigate. Our team not only helps back each other up in case we need someone to step in on our behalf, but also is behind the scenes encouraging one another, answering questions, bringing each other supplies/food, and all kinds of other things you’ll never see. Andi will be on the list of approved doulas at The Women’s Hospital soon as well, just like all our other doulas! As we support our clients, so we also support each other. It’s a pretty great set up really.

Andi Conkwright, Birth Doula

So reach out today if you’d like to talk to Andi about doula services. She’ll surely wow you with her sweetness and knowledge about birth! Welcome to the team Andi. We’re so glad you’re here to help us serve more families in the tri-state!

Welcome our new doula: Norma Simpson!

Birth Doula, Postpartum Doula, Placenta Encapsulation, & generally awesome human!

We are so very excited to announce the latest addition to our team: Norma Simpson! I got the chance to meet Norma through some local doula networking she was doing, and I was so very impressed with her from the start. She has so many great ideas for improving birth and has the best energy about her that makes you just want to be in her presence. She’s thoughtful, kind, passionate, as well as fully trained in birth, postpartum, and placenta services. She is already on the “approved doula list” at The Womens’ Hospital and has supported her first birth there. She might be new to this doula thing, but we are SURE she’s going to do great things, and we can’t wait to watch her soar with a little support from our team.

Norma Simpson, Birth & Postpartum Doula

In Their Words

I am a birth and postpartum doula currently training to be a full-spectrum doula. I was raised in Webster County, KY and have a Bachelors in Psychology from Duke University. I also hold an EMT Basic certification. I currently work as a social worker in Evansville. I wanted to help people since I was young and was always drawn to the medical field. It was in a global health class that I learned of the terrifying statistics that birthers, particularly Black birthers, faced in America and knew that I wanted to make a change there. Through my research, I found out what a doula was and the impact they could have and I signed up for a training course shortly after. That was over 2 years ago. I hope to provide each of my clients with compassionate care and holistic support throughout their pregnancy, labor, and postpartum period so they feel empowered and realize just how strong they are.

Why did you become a doula?

I became a doula because the birthing statistics I learned in my class were terrifying and I wanted to do something to mitigate and improve that for birthing persons, especially within low-income and Black communities. Throughout my trainings, I realized education and advocacy are two of the most important ways to improve these statistics; you can’t ask for what you don’t know exists and it doesn’t matter if your voice is ignored. I hope to provide each of my clients with the power and knowledge of choice and speak up for their wishes when they are brushed off.

What do you like about Evansville?

The thing I enjoy the most about Evansville is definitely the parks. I love nature and being outdoors and I appreciate having options of places to go for a walk or enjoy the sunshine during lunch.

What does a typical Saturday look like for you?

I usually spend my Saturdays at home with my dog Autumn. She loves to play fetch in the backyard when the weather is nice.

Norma is Available!!!

Norma is trained and ready to serve clients with birth doula services, postpartum doula services, and placenta encapsulation. She lives in KY, which we know some of our KY clients prefer. She’s available for due dates as early as June and looking forward to being able to serve clients as early as June 2022! Her compassionate smile and listening skills will impress you. We’d love to help you book a free interview with Norma to see if she might be the right doula for your team.

Welcome Birth Doula Jessica Baxter!!

We are pleased to announce the arrival of the one and only birth doula Jessica Baxter to our team!!! This small and mighty doula has been trained by two different organizations (DONA International & National Black Doula Association) and is already on the approved list at The Women’s Hospital in Newburgh. She’s ready and excited to start serving clients here with this team of doulas behind her.

Jessica Baxter, birth doula

In Her Words:

“I am a birth doula currently working on full certification . I was born and raised in Evansville and had 2 amazing boys and a very supportive spouse to match. I have over 12 years experience as a Certified Nursing Assistant and 5 years as a Patient Service Coordinator at Deaconess Chancellor Center for Radiation Oncology. Becoming a doula has always been a dream of mine since I was a child. After having children my passion elevated. With my own medical experience I’ve had with my personal births I felt the need to become an advocate for my community. I am a loving and compassionate birth doula who provides emotional, physical and educational support in order to help families have a safe, memorable and empowering birthing experience.”

Why did you become a birth doula?

“I wanted to become a doula to advocate for my community, especially because I know some mothers are too scared to speak up & the black mortality rate is terrible. I want to provide services especially to young black mothers who have no support or the funding to educate themselves about their options.”

What do you like about living in Evansville?

“My favorite thing about living in Evansville is my community. Where I grew up everyone knew everyone and it made it easy to lend a helping hand when needed. I couldn’t go 2 miles without someone calling my mother telling them where they saw me riding my bike.”

What does a typical Saturday look like for you?

“Saturdays after cooking a big breakfast for my family. I go to the gym then spend time with my family. ”

Teamwork Makes the Dream Work!!

We are especially excited that Jessica is joining our team to add more black doula magic because we know that parents love to have doulas who not only look like them, but who also relate to all their experience on a personal level. Jessica is exceedingly kind and has a true heart for service. She has an infectious giggle and asks great questions. She’s also extremely knowledgeable about how to navigate the medical system, which is a VERY valuable skill for a doula to have! She is available to start taking clients now with due dates of May 2022 or later. We would love to help you set up an interview with Jessica so you can chat about her joining your birth team.